When I really think about it, we
never go through rough patches in our lives.
Haven't you ever looked back at your life & realised that, that moment of distress was
meant to happen because something
greater happening in your life now was always meant to be. Without that fallout, you would of still been in the same
old sticky situation &
missing out on the
best thing that's
ever happened.
My greatest realisation is, I
don't need other people to help me get through life. I'm strong enough to do it by myself. I
don't need to conform myself to
another boy, & I certainly didn't need one to get over one.
My mistake all along has been to assume, that I constantly need people to help me get through life, & certainly in
some aspects I do. But when it comes to dealing with problems,
sometimes doing on your
own gives you the satisfaction that you made it out
alive, you made it without anyone's help, just your own & the big guy upstairs.
Bad karma is merely a part of our
imagination, it's part of a long chain called life, to me made into something
beautiful.
Nothing bad ever happens, because everything that happens in life is a
blessing. It may not seem like it right away, but it's up to us to see the good in all circumstances.
When a person walks out of your life, they do so because you
don't need them anymore. There's no reason to feel bad about it, because maybe things would be
worse if they
were a part of your life.
You
can't fight fate, & you certainly
can't fight life. The world isn't going to stop spinning, & you never stop getting older. Life isn't going to wait for you, & time will
always tick. Adapt yourself to the situation & know that what's happening is something
beautiful even though most people would consider it as bad luck.
Be different, instead of moping in excruciating moments, stop, look around & take a deep breath, & once you've allowed the pain to overcome you -
smile. Then
laugh, life has funny ways of telling you you're living. Enjoy every heartbreak, pain & suffering you're going through because they're the
best blessings in life.